Staying Still in the Present Rather Than Chasing the Minutes
When we are young, we often believe there will always be more time—more time to say “I love you,” more time to pursue our dreams, more time to forgive, more time to travel, and more time to simply enjoy the people we love. But somewhere along the way, I discovered that the real gift isn’t just time. It’s presence. Those ordinary moments we take for granted often become the extraordinary ones: sitting around a table with family, laughing with a friend, watching a sunset, hearing a familiar voice, or simply waking up to another day. So, as I reflect on 61 years of life, here are a few lessons this journey has taught me: 1. Time is a gift. Don’t assume you have more of it. 2. Be present. Some of the moments you barely notice today will become the memories you treasure tomorrow. 3. Tell people you love them. Don’t wait for the perfect moment. 4. Life rarely goes exactly according to plan. Sometimes you have to adjust the route. 5. Setba...
